Decreased libido after kids

A friend of mine was saying that his wife keeps saying she isn't interested in sex anymore after the birth of their kids. Personally I think she is getting her groove on with someone else, but that's just me. Has this happened to anybody on the site? I have two kids myslef and I don't think my libido has decreased after the baba's. Yes you don't get to do it as often...... was wondering if you guys could let me have your thoughts on this!!

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A friend of mine was saying that his wife keeps saying she isn't interested in sex anymore after the birth of their kids. Personally I think she is getting her groove on with someone else, but that's just me. Has this happened to anybody on the site? I have two kids myslef and I don't think my libido has decreased after the baba's. Yes you don't get to do it as often...... was wondering if you guys could let me have your thoughts on this!!

Hmmmmm.......vandag gaan ons seker net praat van spykery....


Maar ek lees op die interwebz...op Google...dat vrouens raak gou flat....hulle is nie soos manne nie.....ek lees ook op Google dat thats why gaan vrouens deur change of life...omdat hulle flat is.....ek weet nie of google die waarheid praat nie.....

maar anywayz....just because a female is not interested in sex anymore does not necessarily mean that she is giving the noefie to somebody else....or maybe gee sy dit vir somebody else.

maybe swenk sy net so bietjie met die noefie...daai friend of yours kan ook mos die elke aand wil kry nie.....elke aand kry gaan mos one way or another daai noefie flat maak or hoe huh?..en wanneer gaan hy dan kans kry om TV te kyk....daar is dan nou glad TOPTV ook om sure te maak dat die vrouens nie gou flat raak nie...


On the flip side of things....ek dink daai friend of your soek jou sympathy en wil jou noefie hê!

@ Shakes van Eldos - Ride on brother yeaah - I got caught with another man's woman of 'n ding Clarence Carter is Boss.

Ek stem saam met jou broer google is nie google verniet die noefie raak flat met age hahahahaha

Some say that when a couple is dating or newly wed and are just becoming intimate if they had to place a bean in a glass jar each time they made love/sex it would be full to overflow.After having kids and living together it is almost statistically impossible to empty out the beany jar each time they make love........the jar will stay full of beans until death/divorce whichever comes first.

Thanks guys for the responses, especially from a male perspective and thanks for the (dare I say it) heads-up about my ahem noefie (well that certainly make out all wrong and seriously no puns intended).
@ Shakes I agree with the age thing - only problem is that the chicka is in her early thirties? How werk dit uit.

Hey, it's normal. Moreover, there are substances that are raising women libido. I think that it can save your relationship. I am sure that you know that there is such a thing as viagra. I've been taking it myself, as I am suffering from erectile dysfunction. I was buying the kamagra kopen from online shopl, and it has really raised my sex drive and erection. Well, there are different substances that are working like viagra for females. It's a very nice option for you. Talk with your wife, and ask what she thinkgs about that.